I recently rewatched Family Man with Nicholas Cage in a story similar to It’s a Wonderful Life. But instead of seeing how the home town would be changed if he hadn’t been born, Nicholas Cage’s high powered, cheerfully selfish character sees what his own life would have been like if he married his college girl friend.
I’d forgotten how heart warming this movie is. As a modern movie, there are one or two words or comments or scenes that I wish had been sweeter, but overall, the message is great. And Tea Leonie portrays one of the most realistic overworked but still happy moms that I’ve seen in film. Some of her interactions with the kids are so realistic, they made me laugh as well as remind me of my own little ones (not so little now) with a hint of tears.
She made a regular mom look sexy and fun, even though she often had frumpy looking clothes and hair. It gave me hope.
This can be considered a Christmas film because the movie starts at Christmas time. I think Christmas works well as a background factor in plot development, because it’s a time when characters can feel lonely or have increased family interaction — both can rachet up the tension. My novels Baby Comes First and The Baby Tree have have important developments hit at Christmas.